Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Dear Michelle Valentine,

I'm in a dead-end relationship. I'm 28, and I've been with this 30 year old guy for over 2 years now. Every time I bring up the notion that we should spend more time with each other, I always get "you know I work a lot," "I need to be with my friends, too," and "jeez, don't close me in." I really desire a loving marriage, and I want children, and even the dog in the white picket-fenced yard. I love this guy, but I feel like I'm just withering away (or is it at this point, wasting away?). I know I need to let go of him, but I'm really scared.

Marilyn, via e-mail

Dear Marilyn,

By writing to me, you have committed to start seeking out a better life for yourself--- one that will fulfill your wishes and dreams of having a loving, married life. Now that you realize this man has not been as loving as you desire (and truly need) him to be, you must make the change of letting your heart go of that man. I would not consider the "arrangement" he has with you to be considered a "relationship", and you realize that as well, so it is obvious you must move on. It can be scary to start anew, but just think--- that wonderful man of your dreams does exist, and he's just around the corner. (And I'll even bet he's been dreaming of building a white picket fence!)

Find your new marriage-minded man - complete with white picket fence - right now!